My wife tells me about this acquaintance of her. Flight attendant. Pretty, flirty, and very good at getting what she wanted from men. Used to juggle 3 or 4 guys at the same time, and used them according to a smart division of labor. One rich guy to get presents from, a hot guy to have wild sex with, a social guy to meet people and get attention. You get the picture.
This woman suddenly stopped her slutty ways after her 30th birthday. She suddenly started proclaiming her faith in Jesus, left her job and her boyfriends. Not long afterwards he announced her engagement to what could easily be the ugliest man I’ve ever seen. Short, skinny with a really disgusting face. Immensely rich, obviously. They had one of this movie-style weddings in the open, on a cliff looking at the sea, hundreds of people attending.
All this happened years ago. I always thought of this woman as a very smart bitch. Kinda the personalization of girl game. The thing is, Game gets you what you want. But we all know that the one only thing which is worse than not getting what you want, is getting it.
My wife acquired new gossip about this girl. Seems she’s working as a makeup assistant now. She studied hard and has now become quite a good professional. “Hah!”, I said. “She’s getting old huh. So she’s studying how to keep pretty. The bitch really is smart, and realistic. Kudos to her.” My wife laughed. “She’s actually making good money, it seems.”
That kinda struck me as weird. “Why does she have to work at all? That imp she married is loaded, right? Would you work if I had 50 million dollars? Hell I wouldn’t work myself if I were rich.”
“You’re not rich now and I’m not working.”, she said, with a cute smile.
“Heh. Well you have the baby to take care of. Which reminds me… she’s been married for years already. Why doesn’t she have any kids?”
“Oh she doesn’t want to have any children at all. Been saying it to everyone apparently. Says she couldn’t possibly be a good mother.”
“She could if she weren’t busy putting make up on old ugly bitches.”
Then I realized that of course it makes no sense that she couldn’t take care of a baby. This woman is obviously smart and hard working, and raising a children isn’t that hard. Double digit IQ people worldwide do it all the time, and as long as food and healthcare is readily available it’s really hard to screw up.
It follows that she doesn’t want children. And specifically doesn’t want her husband’s children. Women are programmed to want to have babies with men they love. Hell even rock band groupies have a fervent wish to bear children of her favorite star.
Now, I can’t really blame her for not wanting his children. I wouldn’t want to mix my genes with that imp either. But then why did she marry him? For the money of course. For an instant my manosphere neurons flared up, and I felt pity for the guy. Being used for his money and not even given children. But on second thought, he should have known. Hell he could still push her for children, and divorce her if she refused. The local laws wouldn’t have any problem with that, and he wouldn’t have to pay anything. The guy probably listens to her nagging all the time, and deeply understands her position, and supports her being a strong independent woman. He doesn’t deserve pity. Only scorn.
This smart and calculating woman is selecting herself out of the gene pool. I’m sure her father, who used to be so proud of her beautiful and clever daughter, is now depressed about not having grandchildren (she has siblings, but those aren’t very fertile either for other reasons). Compare that to the dumb neighborhood dumb slut who fucked all her high school class, and at 19 was knocked up by some neighborhood kid, then had the baby. Everybody hates the slut, even the guys who are fucking her. But Darwin really loves her.
I used to be mystified by the usual news of girls in India being murdered in honor-killings by their parents for fucking a guy of the wrong tribe. I mean for hundreds and hundreds of years they know they’re not supposed to fuck around, less of all with the outgroup. They are educated very strictly by the whole community to avoid that. But there’s always some Hindu girl fucking the Muslim boy. And she usually gets killed. Just how goddamn horny are they? Do they want to fuck that badly? Under risk of death? Hell how stupid is that.
But if you compare the long term fitness of conscientious, smart and calculating women and dumb sluts, it’s not hard to see that the genes for dumb sluttiness are *very* useful. Those never fail to churn babies even under the most strict anti-slut regimes. Having those slut genes around might have saved more than one tribe from extinction.
So let’s relax a bit on the slut shaming. Yes too many sluts are harmful to society, and God knows I don’t want one in my family. But Darwin likes those genes, so they aren’t going anywhere.