A lot of stuff has been going on these days, but I want to go back to talk about women.
A big part of the success of the altright blogosphere is the synergy between HBD and the Game movement. Roissy owes his fame for joining Steve Sailer with Neil Strauss, and making his point with very good writing. The basic idea is that much of our behaviour is biologically determined, and if evolution made different populations distinct genetically, it also did that to sex.
It is a great point, perhaps one of the most important discoveries ever. It changed my life in a way that neither Ovid nor Stendhal did, and I’m sure it did the same for thousands of people. “What do women want?”, asked Freud. Now we know.
But if the message that men and women are biologically different has got through, people have a hard time keeping a little perspective. So you see every day on the “manosphere” how people complain at the same time that people women are sluts and that women won’t sleep with them.
Well you can’t have it both ways. We have to understand that not only men and women are different as groups, there is also variance among them. People are different, and even though human societies assign different roles to each group, that often ignores biological variance.
In my last post commenter Red reminds us that, at least in Europe, every village had a village slut, or a handful sluts, with whom men could satisfy a momentary urge without affecting much the social peace. It’s hard for the parents of the slut, but that’s how it is. If most human traits are distributed normally, I have no reason to doubt that women’s sex drive could be mapped more or less like this:
The cutoff is probably closer to the extremes, but I just got a random pic from Google images and you get the point anyway. You might see that the problem that most young men face today is that they all want an easy lay, but the providers of easy lays are limited. Check for example Roosh’s travelog. He has fucked so many sluts that he can see one from a mile away, and he’s tired of them. So he desperately wants a normal girl who will sleep with him, and is pained that he can’t find one, some of the time at least. Just imagine that, a normal girl who won’t sleep with a total stranger who is in town for only a week! Which is the Groucho Marx joke upside down: he only want to join the clubs that won’t have him as a member.
Of course women are guilty of the same thing: they all chase the alphas, but those are in short supply. Again, for easy imaging:
We call this phenomenon hypergamy. In the same way we might call the young men’s mating strategy eukopogamy, Greek for easy coupling (yeah I just made the word up).
But of course the mysteries of women’s mating strategy aren’t only reduced to hypergamy. There are many other things that we are just starting to uncover, or at least we are the first to name them in Greek. For example we have hybristophilia, where women are attracted to cruel and brutal criminals. This instinct is separate from the alpha-seeking hypergamy, because if Ted Bundy was relatively good looking and manly, the 77 year old Josef Fritzl doesn’t get attention for his Alpha attitude.
Of course this doesn’t mean that all women are depraved serial killer fans. My guess is that the distributio of hybristophilia is also like this:
That’s why you might ask a random woman at your office or school, and ask her about all those love letters that Charles Manson still gets, and she says she can’t understand it. Well she probably can’t. Or she’s just a damn liar. There’s also a Bell Curve for that probably.
Related to all the graphs above is another of the puzzling traits of woman that the manosphere is trying to raise awareness of. Which is the fact that some women like to suffer violence. It’s funny that saying that openly is a cause of criminal prosecution in many places, while Fifty Shades of Grey is the fastest selling book in the history of mankind, but hey, that’s how hamsters work. Any non muslim man today, hell all men today are sure to feel disturbed when they read news that as much as 50% of all women have frequent rape fantasies.
But that again doesn’t mean that all women are masochists who want you to give them a black eye every odd day. Let’s say that the pain seeking distribution is something like this:
My conclusion about rape fantasies is that women don’t want to be raped by any creepy random dude. They just enjoy thinking that some uber alpha is so obsessed with them, but they are so virtuous, that he might have to just force his way into them. Those fantasies seldom include dark and smelly alleys and dumb black crack smokers as is often the reality of rape. Still if evolutionary psychology has any weight to it, women in the evolutionary environment were treated harshly and had all the odds of being kidnapped and raped by some neighbouring tribe. So the Stockholm Syndrome must have had some adaptative effect.
Preaching morality in a blog or its comment thread is easy and that’s what conservatism is mostly about. But we in the altright blogosphere should strive to attack liberalism not by using an older brand of magical thinking, but by harnessing the power of reality. Saying that women must shut their legs tight and all strive to be virtuous wives and daughters is as deluded as saying that all men should be noble husbands and fathers and work honest jobs. It’s not going to happen, and it never really was like that. There is a great deal of ruin in a nation. A smart society is the one that while repressing the extremes also lets some steam get off from time to time.
Inclusiveness is evil because it forces mainstream society to people that don’t belong to it, and don’t really want to be in it. It starts by forcing the mores of the mean into the extremes, and when that fails (it always does), it forces the mores of the extremes into the mean. Of course that works even worse. It won’t last.